Friday, August 13, 2010

Visiting the Past

I have recently uploaded two old pictures that just made me stop and think.


Let me explain a little about my upbringing. I am the oldest Granddaughter
on both sides of my family. Everyone else was having boys - so I was
surrounded by 'tough guys' from the beginning. However, I come from
a family of very strong women. And by strong, I mean that these women
were the key to the happiness, success and survival of their families. They
were never afraid of hard work or tough love, yet they were the most
gentle women I have ever known. I can not remember a time that I did
not feel total and complete love from each one. When I think of the most
influencial women in my life, I think of my Mother (Nelda), her twin
sister (Elda) and their Mother, my Grandmother (Lesley).
Now, back to the pictures . . .
The first picture is of my Grandmother, Lesley, holding me with two of my male
cousins beside me. It was probably taken in 1960.
Grandma was a totally 'hip' Granny that never seemed to be Grandmotherly.
She had so many talents and took great pride in her family and her
accomplishments.
In this picture I see the deep connection that she and I had throughout our lives.
The second picture (1962) really tells the tale of my childhood. This
picture depicts my feelings of my mother and her twin sister who
seemed to be interchangable. Between the two of them, I believe
I had the most complete mother anyone could ever have.
The first thing I noticed with this picture was how I had a hand
on both of 'my moms'!
What wonderful memories these pictures brought to mind.
All three of these women are now missing in my life.
It is with the strong foundation they built for me, that I
am able to go on without them!
In my heart forever - Mom, Elda and Grandma Les.

1 comment:

Hilary said...

wow, incredible photos. I've never seen grandma Les like that. It's funny to me how identifiable Doug is, even so young!